As a kid, I loved to celebrate birthdays.
The best part about them were –
A week prior to the birthday,
Dad would ask what I’d loved to do
and he would get me a present around that.
When I was 8 or so,
I’d told him that I loved to read stories.
So for my birthday a week later,
he bought me a set of mystery books –
Mystery of the stolen egg
Mystery of the haunted house
and few more…
Those memories are so precious,
I’ll take them to my grave,
but never forget.
♥
Yesterday was Dad’s birthday.
I too wanted to ask him
what I could give him.
But I knew the answer.
I’ve known it for 20 years.
He loves to ride bikes.
But I can’t gift him one.
He is suffering from chronic disease of the kidneys
and is going through dialysis sessions thrice a week.
Yes, it’s that bad!
He’s been advised to not so much as lift half a kg.
Riding a bike is off-limits.
The treatments and frequent hospitalization
is making him weaker.
He needs something that will keep him strong.
Something cheerful, something special.
So on his birthday yesterday,
I gave him nothing!
♥
I’m at work, a new project.
Capturing our special moments,
in the form of a booklet
Is there a better gift?
I can’t think of one!
♥♥♥
Dad turned 50 yesterday.
Given the present situation, could I be any more happy?
~~~~~
Asha Seth
Forgot to say thanks for liking my post about the blessing of school bags.
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No problem. Always happy to share a like or two. 😃
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Hi Asha. So sorry to hear of your Dad’s sickness. Your poem was beautiful. I’m sure you’ve looked at the possibility of giving him one of your kidneys. That would be a wonderful gift. You and I are two generations apart – my son turned 50 last year.
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Yes, Frank, have considered that. But sadly the laws around here are different. Daughters cannot donate apparently. 😞 Oh, nice to know about you two. It is enriching to speak with someone who’s been witness to so much in life. 😃 Youre welcome here, Frank.
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I hope he gets completely well real soon.
There could not be a better thoughtful gift that you are working on. All the best for it. 🙂
You are a wonderful daughter doing a wonderful job. 🙂
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Thanks, Aditi. 🙂
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My friend, you never mentioned your dad suffering, I wish I could give you a hug. I love your gift idea though, it is a truly special gift and he will be so proud you made it for him. You do make me smile with all you do my dear friend.
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You’re awesome as always, J. Happy to have you around. 🙂
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Many blessings to you and your dad, it must be so difficult for him to go through this. And for all of you, his loved ones, to see him go through it. I truly can’t think of a better gift than a booklet of memories, I truly can’t.
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Kamea, your thoughts mean a lot and I wish you happiness in the plenty. Dad’s strong, and I’m trying to be patient. It feels good to hope for better days. Yes, the booklet of about 10 some pages is in the making. 🙂
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Nice, parents always love hand crafted things ☺
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I think so too. 😉
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I am fine and studying after dinner …deserve a short break for coffee ☕☕
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Oh, the good old college days. The things you miss after marriage. I would love to be in your shoes even if that was for a day. And coffee for a break, sounds perfect to.me. study well, sweety. 👧
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Sure ☺..you are such a sweetheart👭❤.
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Giggles! ❤
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Ohhh!!!
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I am fine …missed conversation with you..thinking you might be busy …have a nice time dear 👭
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Yes, it’s been a mad week for me. I could hardly be with dad on his birthday, save for an hour. I’ve missed our conversations too. 😉
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Never mind ☺ …happens life is full of ups and downs..you know it very well😄
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Oh sure! 😛
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Wishing you all the best for your new project too ☺
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I really need that, Kiran. 💓 Thanks again. How do you do?
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You have captured a lifetime of love and bond between you and your father in those few lines. Here is wishing strength and a long life to him!
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Thank you, Sir. Your words matter. Wishing you everything happy and a lot more. 😃
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Thank you, Asha. And hey, I may be getting a bit long in the tooth but you don’t have to call me ‘sir’!
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Oh, I really admire you works and that’s why. But I’ll oblige, nonetheless. Umashanker😃
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so sad.bt u give him d gift as ur confidence n happieness on ur face.he had done all for you to become as perfect personality.plz say hi m my regard n happy birthday.
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Thank you, Aruna. Appreciate you conveying regards. Love to you, Asha. 💖
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most welcom n love.
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💕💕
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I am sorry to hear about your father’s condition. Wishing the best for him.
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Thank you, Sunith, for your wishes. God bless. 😇
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God bless your family, Asha.
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You as well. Sunith😃
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Very touching! I am feeling sorry for your father and wish him a speedy recovery. A happy belated birthday to your dad. Dads are always very precious!
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Glad to have you here, Indrajit. And yes, dad’s going through a lot. I wish it’s over soon. Dad ‘s are their daughters hero. 😍
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Oh Asha I am soooo sorry to hear about your father. While you may not be able to give him the gift he wants…his bike , you are giving him the best present and parent can ask for and that is ..LOVE. Continue to love your father it is the gift that keeps giving.
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Jerry. Your precious thoughts always make me smile. Love is unconditional and eternal. And I’m hoping that’ll make him better, sooner. Of course with the treatment. Thanks, bud. 😄
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Here is another athlete to add to your collection of knowledge LOL…https://smallthoughtsinasportsworld.wordpress.com/2016/08/09/smallthoughtsold-school-tuesday-marvin-harrison/
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I shall sure catch up with that and the few others that I’ve missed in the last week. Just need some spare time and a cup of Earl grey. 🙂
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Nice
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Asha How are you ? I would like your thoughts on this …https://bklynboy59.wordpress.com/2016/11/09/one-mans-opinion-self-discovery-is-an-on-going-journey/
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Give me time. I shall be there soon. How do you do, Jerry😍
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I am well Asha thank you for asking
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First of all many happy returns of the day to your father 🍰🌹.
I understand the situation you are going through and hope you to be mentally strong to handle this.
Just express yourself! Tell him you care, you love him, you love spending time with him. Think about him and what you admire in him. Tell him about that. I mean, it’s not easy to go through an illness…it takes a lot of courage. What did he teach you when you were small? Thank him. And if you aren’t comfortable with that, be silly. Share a joke or a silly card. The answer to this question is that there are a lot of answers. Don’t worry about saying the ‘wrong thing’. I wish you the best with your father.
Remind him of the good things he has taught you and how much they mean to you. I assure you that nothing you could do would make him feel better. Also, look up some jokes to tell him. Humor to a sick person is like medicine. If he might like to watch a DVD with you, rent it and share that time.
Share some good times! He and you both will feel better. It’s good that you care so much ☺
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Thank you so much, Kiran. 🙂
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Belated birthday wishes to your dad, asha and wish him a speedy recovery. Creating beautiful moments with your dad is the best gift you can give him. Love him and be with him. I am sure it will make him happy. Take care.
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no doubt your presence and love is gift enough for him.
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Appreciate you sharing such beautiful words. Be happy, as you made me. 🙂
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Sweet!
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Thank you, Ruma. I guess, true feelings touch hearts. 🙂 Hope you’ve been well.
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So true? I have been well, just not getting enough time to write what I want?
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A writer’s misery. Never the time to write till heart’s content. I’m in the club as you. 😂
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Very touching. You expressed your love of your father so well, all I can think of is how much I loved my Dad when he was on this side of the Cosmos.
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Fathers are really special. Their love is eternal.
I’m sure he’s with you right now and smiling at your thoughts for him. Thank you, David. For sharing this moment with me. It’s precious. 🙂
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I’m sorry to hear this about your father, Asha. No, there is no greater gift. He’s lucky to have you as his daughter. Happy Birthday to him!
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Your humble thoughts make me sentimental, Jill. I am so happy to have you here in this moment with me sharing the love with your words. 🙂 I pray too he gets better.
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