What’s it about Christmas that makes me secretly so happy inside? Why do I feel like you feel on a reunion with an old friend? That’s because, of all festivals, Christmas is a favorite. And here’s why.
Celebrations of Diwali, Holi and most other Indian festivals entail merry-making along-side creating inconsiderate chaos. Bursting firecrackers, blaring vulgar music, reckless indulgences, are mere profligate ways of supercilious exhibition of one’s religious and traditional beliefs. It is my firm belief that the true essence of these festivals is long lost.
Christmas, however, is still exquisitely immaculate. There’s joy while there’s peace. Glorification and gratification, both, cherished with a most serene reverence of the almighty. Somewhere between adoring and desiring, Christmas was everything I sought as a kid. Wanting to meet Santa Claus was a dream right out of a fairy-tale. Ever since then, Christmas has held a special place in my heart.
Personally, Christmas is about fond memories from school days. Merry-making in the confines of the school which actually meant strict discipline. The meagre freedom to be oneself with no-one to inquire of whereabouts was so liberating. Corridors to classrooms dazzled with glee faces. Reigning silence from regular school hours was replaced with chirpiness of students and teachers alike.
Christmas is around the corner. And once again, vague and vivid memories from back then overwhelm me. My heart’s heavy with the surge of emotions. I’m craving all of it while feeling satiated all the same. It’s an extraordinary feeling. One I want to relive with all its craziness and absurdity, all the follies and frolics. And the very next moment, I bite back tears, swallow the lump choking my throat, knowing just how things have changed.
In 8th grade, I’d directed a tableau which not only did bag the first prize but went on to become a benchmark for coming years. The Christmas Tableau. For 2 years, my registration was not even considered by the committee heads. I was too young to direct something as enormous as a tableau for the School Christmas Eve.
Right from selecting the members to deciding costumes, setting up the props to shortlisting the singing crew, it formed an everlasting experience. Just how half the school sang ‘Silent Night’ when it played in the tableau, is even today, etched in my mind, fresh as the early morning sun.
The best and most peculiar thing about Christmas though, was the treats that we received in school. Plum cakes, a tetra-pack of Frooti, a pack of Peppy friums and Melody chocolates. Then, even the simplest things took us kids by storm. I still remember how I would peek into homes for a look at the glistening Christmas trees and long for one in my house.Being a Hindu, never had Christmas celebrations at home. And so, the Christmas celebrations at school was the closest I got to.
For me, Christmas, is about this feeling, about these nostalgic memories, loved and longed for.
To you, dear reader,
Merry Christmas! 🎅🎄 🎁💕
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Asha Seth
Oh sweet, sweet Asha how I loved reading this…you just made my heart swell! Not to mention your writing is just a dream to read but your heart is so beautiful, I hope your Christmas was just as you wished and more! ❤ ❤ ❤
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You always have the nicest things to say, Mau. I’m ever so happy to have you around. ❤
Christmas was fun. And hoping you had a good time too.
How goes the new year dear?
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You deserve all the nice things said sweetheart! My time was good as well and my new year is fantastic! I hope you are doing good and smiling this very minute! XO!!
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Merry Christmas Asha!
My favourite festival too is christmas. Though I don’t do anything special but, it has something that entices me. 🙂
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Thank you for the wishes, Prachi. Christmas is special to all in some way or other. 🤓
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I pray your Christmas was truly blessed! I was dealing with an MS episode, but I wanted to let you know I did not forget you my sister. You always provide ones heart a spiritual and inspiring lift! Thanks for always sharing the radiance from your heart and spirit! God bless!
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Oh my goodness! Wendell. How are you now? It’s a sad thing to know what you had to go through. God be with you and hoping you have a healthy and hearty year ahead.
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Merry Christmas!
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Wish you too, Charles. 🤓
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Dear Asha
Your post makes me nostalgic
I still remember in higher secondary school days we used to make a big star..and hang it down the top of school building
Just two days before holidays there would be no school periods
Cleaning and decorating school
Singing Christmas carols
Greeting card competition
The best of 10 greeting cards were put on notice board by Rev Father Alex Quadros
Party enjoyment and dance on 23rd Dec
Refer to my post Refreshing Sweet Memories
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Those are few of my most endearing memories. 🙂
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I could relate to this beautiful post on so many levels including how the closest you got to celebrating Christmas was at school and the Peppy Friums bit hints you are almost my age cause we got similar stuff in our school too 🙂
Sending loads of festive cheer and holiday joys your way!
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That’s one of the few comments that made me so happy. It’s delighting to know that we’ve shared same memories, in a way or other. I love to meet same-aged readers, ’cause you match so much in the wavelength. 😉
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Merry Christmas Asha, Happy Holidays… 🙂
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Thank you and wish you loads of fun. 😄
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Thank u🍡
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Merry Christmas to you too 🙂
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Thank you, Pradipta. Have a nice one. 😄
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I did. Hope you did too 🙂
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Yes, totally. Plus got my gift too from Santa. 😋
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Fantastic! Enjoy the holidays then 🙂
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You too, my friend. Make the most of the season. 😃
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Thanks 🙂
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Your writing and website are both so beautiful. This was a lovely post, Asha, and I’m looking forward to enjoying more. Happy holidays and a lovely new year to you!
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Thanks, Randy. You’re my Santa this Christmas. 💕😘 Happy holidays to you too. Cheers!
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How joyous! Ho-ho-ho! Have a very happy holiday!
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Its the same feelings for me as well. Trying to stay up late to see Santa putting the presents under my tree, yet I dose off. Then, I wake up to bikes and other Christmas things. Those are the memories I’ll never forget. Merry Christmas, Asha 😉
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I found your comment so late, Anthony. So replying only now. The festive season was all good for me. Having a tree under my roof will always remain a dream for me. So it always excites me to know what fun friends are doing. Such pleasant memories, you bet. What did you find this year?
The part from Harry Potter is very heartwarming when Harry wakes up on Christmas dawn to find his first ever present – the cloak. I watch that scene from the movie each year on Christmas. Don’t ask me why.
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I found some cool stuff to workout in and a jacket. Also 2 Nintendo games to add to my collection. I still have the orignal system I play from time to time☺ Its so cool how imagery worlds can touch us and make us happy. I hope I can do that one day with my work, but not sure if I can be as huge as Harry Potter books are, but I’ll try. Also I don’t mind the late response. Any response from you is always well worth the wait 😀
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That’s cool. And yes, things we love make us all feel very differently. Any feat is great if it’s born from your toil and sweat and if you’ve got your heart in it. It doesn’t have to be Harry Potterish. But we all so wish, isn’t it? 😛
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Marry christmas Asha.have a great time
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Thank you and welcome to my blog. 🙂
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Merry Christmas to you too. 🙂
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Thank you and have a nice one yourself.:)
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Thank you 🙂
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This made me smile 🙂
Christmas brings in excitement, rarely other festivals do so. Merry Christmas:)
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I’ve believed this since adolescence. I do enjoy other festivals too but just not as much. I’m delighted to know you liked, Ajay. 😃😄
Where have you been? It’s been a while.
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Exams
I am back with a post and I would be regular from now, I assure that 🙂
I was a bit sick and then exams came up that lasted for a month. got rid of them on 20th and posted on 22nd 🙂
You say, how have you been?
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Hoping you are keeping well now, Ajay.
Life’s been a bit too fast for me, and I’m trying to match pace. While also getting the wishlist ready for Santa. 😛
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Yes Asha, I am better now 🙂
Hey, don’t you think life should be fast, though I admire stillness and slowness I think it’s better when fast paced 🙂 achha first leave your review on my latest post🙈🙈🙈 sorry thoda self publicity ke liye, and yes I will contact you on gmail as soon as possible 🙂 stay happy, good day 🙂
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Yes, but I rather enjoy every moment of every minute, than witness them in passing. But then I’d be bored of too slow a life too. 😋
I’m off to checking your post. It excites me when it’s shared exclusively like this. 😍
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No its not that good, but its ok 🙂 I like slowness when I am tired 🙂 I think clocks are overrated
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Have a happy!
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Same goes to you. 🙂
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Absolutely Asha. Christmas has something about it, that serenity, that sanity. You just say the word, and you find peace.
And Christmas trees are always a delight to eyes.😍
Merry Christmas Asha!🎆🎄🎁😃
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You always make me happy. I’m making the most of the festive season. Hoping you are too. 🙂
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😊
Trying to!☺
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Merry Christmass
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Marry Christmass
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To you too, my friend. 🙂
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Thank you
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🙂
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And merry Christmas 🎁🎄🎁
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Thank you, Vonita. Happy holidays and a wonderful season. 🙂
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Nicely put!
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All festivals bring people together irrespective of the religion !
There are those who celebrate them sticking to minimalism as well as those who take it over the top indulging in an orgy of excess !! No matter what the festival and what the religion! Christmas too is not an exception !!
Your recollection of christmas in school days was really cool!!
Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year 2017!!
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Thank you for sharing your views, Aneesh. I agree with your thoughts and festivals truly do bring kins and loved ones together. Have a felicitous year ahead. 🙂
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Thank You !!
Once again Merry Chirstmas and A Happy New Year 2017 to you as well !!
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Thank you, Asha. You feel Christmas as most of us do; the memories and feelings and family. Perhaps that’s not the true meaning of Christmas, but if we all experience good memories and feelings, then that is a great step. Best to you!
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You’re right,Jennie. ‘Tis the season to be jolly, this way or that! Have a wonderful time. 🙂
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Same to you, Asha!
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Very true! I was feeling a bit similar about this festivity. Also, I didn’t know about you directorial aspect – Christmas tableau! Seems like fun. Merry Christmas! 🙂
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Happy to have you here, Chandan. And yes, right from initiation to execution, the tableau was absolute fun.:) Enjoy the season. 😉
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You have an absolutely wonderful Christmas. I never celebrated much, but I am in Las Vegas now till Sunday night 😊
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Hope you have a jolly good time, Alok. Do share the pictures when you find time. 🙂
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Yes, for sure 😊
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💕💕
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