People, stop writing about how blogging is great, how good people are to you, just how much you love writing… STOP! STOP! STOP!
We know you care for the word. All of us do. And that’s why we’re here. That’s why YOU are here. But why, in the name of all that’s good, harp on it? Write something meaningful. That has more substance than matter repeated a zillion times. Trying hard to impress? Seriously, I couldn’t care less.
So I ain’t in a good mood. Not my usual self. And yes, you may have gathered that by now. So go ahead. Ask me why?
To begin with, I met with an accident the start of this week. Oil spill that had my bike go skidding down the bridge. My bike was in a rather bad shape than I. That same day, my best friend too met with an accident. Bloody coincidence! Lucky, we are still alive. Who’s trying to screw things up? Who’s attempting to hurt me or my loved ones? Here I am. Bruised and hurting, I’m roaming around like a starving lion, ready to devour anyone, anything. Care to cross me?
Mom called to say I should be careful. I’m not to be trusted with speed, she adds. I wasn’t exactly trying to die, I snap back. Time’s not good for me. Like a vampire thirsty for my blood, something’s been chasing me. Cloaked, invisible and right after my life. How do I escape from someone I can’t even see? I feel insecure; an atmosphere of dread follows me.
I work with fury, the copy I scribble stares back at me. Why so paranoid, they ask? When a colleague tries to strike a conversation, I find it hard to answer in an even tone. I’m afraid my voice will strip me off and lay bare my insecurities, making me a piece of mockery. So I don’t reply at all. To hell with them!
Missing the goody-goody me? Bet you are. No flowery talks, no swooning poems. The skin of pride is shed; left behind raw and bare. Where do I begin? Where do I stop?
Asha Seth
There seems to be a numbing sameness in social and online media. Everyone is trying to portray happiness, joy, prettiness, etc. The occasional rants, like this post, seem a lot more real.
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Thank you, Ankur. For being so supportive of casual rants. 😛 Where have you been? It’s been a while I haven’t seen you around.
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No problem. Glad my comment offers support. To your second point, I am where I have been; at my blog, though not quite as often as I would like to be. Thanks for your support too.
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Well then something must be wrong for I haven’t been receiving your posts in my reader. 😦
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NO problem. Here are a couple of recent posts, for your reading pleasure:
https://darkofficehumour.wordpress.com/2016/12/22/black-and-white/
https://darkofficehumour.wordpress.com/2016/12/02/national-anthem/
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Asha,
Dear I am so sorry for the pain you’re going through… take care of yourself and your shoulder.
About the emotions that you have reflected on your write-up was understandable. I empathize with you. Feeling that way sometimes makes us to sit down quietly, all by ourselves and introspect things around and within us. And you get the best ideas and thoughts during these phases or just after the passing of that phase.
Thanks for showing the mirror… probably every reader must have seen their reflections through this piece.
Regards, CP
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Ouch. That must of hurt, however there’s is nothing wrong with simply letting off some steam. It’s perfectly normal and fine to do.
Hope you’re okay and feeling better.
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Yes, much better now. And moreso after having read your positive comments. 🙂 How’ve you been?
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That’s good to hear. I’ve been good just exams and more exams.
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Oh well, the tyranny that exams unleash. Good luck to you.
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Thank you dear, hope all is good with you.
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Hi Asha, I am so sorry to hear about your troubles! I know the feeling, I get stuck in these moods too and self pity at times. When I was younger, especially. My kids can usually pull me out of it now, but I have a vulnerability to depression and it is really difficult to shake sometimes. I hope you get out of the funk soon, it will soon be a memory to add to your history. Until then, take care of yourself and know it’s normal to get upset and discouraged by life’s unexpected impediments. ~Anne
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Your words add sunshine to my days, Anne. It’s been 2 weeks now and there’s no denying that I do feel tad better. Depression, ah! I’ve been a victim of it and I hope you cope up well and emerge stronger than ever.
How are you doing? Loads of love to you.
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I am doing well, other than our current political system that has my mind preoccupied a lot lately. Personal life is good with lots to be grateful for! I am enjoying my online herbal class and anticipating spring so I can start growing herbs again. You are so kind, and I hope you find more strength from your perils! You radiate brilliance, even when down and I am so grateful to have met you! ❤Your friend, Anne
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I can imagine the present atmosphere to be quite tense and ambiguous. I’m sure it must impact many. Amidst all that’s happening, I’m happy you’re having your head high up, sane and sound. I’m equally happy to have found you, my friend. 🙂
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i found this extremely soothing…….i can assure you, i read this eloquently…..enunciating and punctuating as would be needed…….emphasizing and screaming, though silently in my mind………..some days just suck everything out of you…..
i hope you and your friend are going good now………best wishes…… 🙂 🙂
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You find it soothing, and I was going through hell while writing this one. I’m loads better now though.
Yes, we are both well, but just the thought that things could’ve been worse creeps me out. But I guess in my mind now I’m settled with that. 🤓
How do you do?
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i think it came out wrong…….i meant i so wanted to scream that your raw and unleashed sort of rant gave some voice to the frustration…….and helped my need………i did not mean i drew any pleasure from your suffering……
it’s good to know that you both are well…….and in my experience, things can always get worse……but the fact that it doesn’t……..we ought to celebrate that….because ‘life’ sucks a lot…lol
i am doing fine. 🙂 🙂
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Unfortunate to know that you met with an accident… Get well soon… take care… Best wishes… 🙂
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Great forward post, blogging is about important issues beside poem , and art , about politics, about the reason why we are on this earth.Best regards.
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I hope you are feeling much better now, both physically and mood wise! Wishing you a fast recovery!!
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Thanks, Mithai. I’m glad to have you here. I’m feeling better than last week. Just want the bones to recover soon .
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I hope so too!! Sending you lots of love and best wishes, take care ❤ ❤
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You had a lucky escape, take care of you my friend. I enjoyed this departure from your usual writing, let it all out my friend, rant away!
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Yes, I do feel quite lucky thinking of what could’ve happened. I have been on a ranting spree since my accident. This week I’m bit better, physically and mentally. Thanks, J.
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That’s good as I do worry for you my friend.
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Feeling glad to know nothing major happened to you dear Asha…take care and rest..get well soon that’s what is my wish..I feel you should go by public transport for a few days untill all things get settled in a proper place
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Yes, will take the public transport for some time once I get well. Thank you for stopping by and adding your wishes. 🙂
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Hope so you are taking proper rest to regain normalcy …good morning dear Asha Di
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Getting the rest possible between work and home. Good morning to you too, Kiran.
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Love your attitude towards work …I always learn something new from you
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Raw and uncut thoughts of urs are amazing
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And frustrating too. 😦
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I understand you are not your usual self and I am sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you.
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You’re kind, Kaws. Thank you. 🙂
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You’re welcome.
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I guess you are still angry. Tell you what, lady: it will do you no good snapping at your Mom. Nor will it do you any god reading all that drivel on the Internet.
Meanwhile, take care.
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Yes, I’m a bit weird that way. A bad mood drags on and on with me, leeching onto me like a parasite. I’m sticking by Harry Potter for now as the books make me feel better and keep the pain at bay.
Thanks Uma.
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Blogs are meant for sharing one’s emotions to hypothetical friends….
Why not complain and even curse when in case?
I can understand how tou feel……..Hope you’re better now….
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Thank you. And yes, I’ll be better given some time.
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Aaaaarrrgggghhhh!
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Ah ! I guess this is the phase of life that repeats on and off and to be honest it proves you are alive and kicking , you are enough human and do have pretty emotions 😛
Great to put it up here , and take care dear .!!
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Thanks Charvi. Gradually one needs to go on and I’m pushing myself through. Well, some would say it was a mere accident and a lot of things happen that are worse than that. But may be at a particular time, any incident can seem worse given the situation you’re dealing with.
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I can completely get that !!
Some Things just seem to prove worse !
But I have full faith that you will come out of it !
Your internal side would
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Yes, I hope so too. How’ve you been?
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I have been good !! Was catching up with some negative vibes but lately everything is fine .
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Negativity hunts you down at your weakest. It’s difficult to elude it for long, especially when one’s down. Be around whatever raises your spirits. Read happy stuff. Eat bliss foods. What more can I say? Just try and keep yourself occupied.
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That’s what I did
And I guess the phase is gone
The fact it keep popping up
Gives you motivation
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I can imagine. Take care sweets. 🤓
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You too dear one:)
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Just when I thought it not possible I am even more fond of you than ever! Speaking your truth Asha is beautiful! Terrible to hear of your accident and your friends as well I am glad you are both okay!! ❤ and like I say honey when ppl try to question me of why Im in an off sort of a mood 'Im not all sunshine and rainbows for crapsake' hahaa! I hope the crappy mood passes quickly for you but honestly Im glad you posted this and got some of it off of your chest! XO!! ❤
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Yes, just writing about it pacified me a lot better. Amazing what writing does to us addicts. I’m getting better I hope; I’m not as much surly and sore as I was. Thanks Mau. Your words make me happier.
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Oh sweetheart I am so sorry to hear though that you are still sore and it must have scared you as well. and scared your mom! Im glad you are feeling better though truly I am! XO!! ❤
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Yes, it’s been week for the doomed mayhem and at least I can say that it’s effects are wearing off now. Physically I don’t feel too great, Mau. But it’s just a matter of time, isn’t it?
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Oh sure it is honey, Ive had my fair share of accidents as we all have. you will be back to your ole self in no time! ❤
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Thank you, Mau. You’re sweet. 🙂
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well it is you that makes being sweet so easy Asha! ❤
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So modest! I like. Loads of love. ❤
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Right back at ja sweets! ❤
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Glad to know that you are fine Asha. Many a times in life we let our hurt and anger take charge. It is good to let them come to fore and fall apart. I am sure you will feel better once all your negatives and ire is purged out. 💙❤
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Your words are comforting. Radhika. 🙂 I hope you’re well.
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I am good Asha. Hope to see you soon , mesmerise others with your words. Take care 😊😘💙
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Hopeful of that! Thanks sweety. 🙂
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I understand ur pain . when accident happens there are thoughts like this wanders around mind ..don’t worry.. Slowly u will start feeling good.pain will subside.. None gonna hurt u. Blogging is not just about flowery words. Its all about expressing happiest of the things and hardest of thing u suffer.. People love to say how blogging is wonderful because of all the blogs they write which includes a great substance , people also want to thank many who they feel connected with. With their work.I can understand every bit of painful things surpassing ur mind.. Don’t worry..ur pain will decrease.. U wil smile again
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I just hate how I am reduced on hope after such incidents. It takes a really long time for me to have hope restored in things once lost. Guess the whole week I’ve just been a grumbling old ass. I like writers, on the whole, and appreciate their hard work. Excuse the rants. :-O
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Sometimes its also important to see each other perspective.
Hey don’t worry.. Something which you are going thru is understandable but then , u wil have to overcome this phase.none can bring hope to u better than u . look at the people who survived severe medical condition.think about people who have survived natural disaster.. Its their will power which made them overcome.. I don’t know how to cheer u up.. But I m with u..
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That means a lot to me. Just having well-wishers like your kind self around. Thank you, Supreet.
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🙂 always. I will wait for you to say “I’m back with great energy again “
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That’s uplifting and my spirits are up a notch now. Thanks for the push. 🙂
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U r amazing .. Happy to see u r fine asha.. Keep smiling
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Thanks.
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Are you okay now Asha?
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It’ll be a while before I can say I’m okay. Dealing with a hairline fractured shoulder. 😦
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Oh that must be very painful. Can you even move your hand? I remember a shoulder dislocation that happened while I was in the gym.
Please take care Asha.
I hope you get well soon. 🙂
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Oh, hope you’re in the pink of health now. I’ll be just fine. Thanks so much, Harsh.
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All the best Asha.
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This is really raw, great post.
That feeling of lack of control bubbles up anger.
Hope your bike is ok.
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Ahh, yeah. Bike’s okay now. Thank you for stopping by, Byron.
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