‘Love, It Was Never Meant for Me’ by Kulbhushan Chaudhary, affectionately known as KK, is a poignant rendezvous with heartbreak and healing in love. Released on March 8, 2025, this deeply personal narrative offers readers an unfiltered glimpse into the author’s own experiences with love and loss. The book chronicles author’s journey through six significant relationships, each leaving an indelible mark on his heart and shaping his understanding of love and healing. Despite the bittersweet experiences, KK’s story is highly relatable and a story that will remain in the readers memories for its raw and innocent facets experienced by everyone who’s ever been in love and lost it.
1. Can you tell us a little bit about your book? Why did you choose this genre and what’s the story behind the title?
Love – It Was Never Meant for Me is a personal story of multiple heartbreaks that made the person I am today. It’s about love, loss, and resilience and what I learned in between. But of all the hurt, it was two types of love that never abandoned me — my mother’s love, and my son’s love. They were what kept me on track when everything else went to hell. Everyone loves, one way or another. I thought I would share my journey because a lot of people experience heartbreak but don’t always discuss it. It is not just a romance—this book is about the strength that you find in love when it hurts.
2. What inspired you to write this story? How did you find the resources and research material for your book?
My own life experiences inspired this book. After half a dozen heartbreaks, I realized that love isn’t just about happy endings—it’s about growth, resilience, and the people who truly stand by you. The love of my mother and my son gave me the strength to share my journey. I didn’t need research—this story comes straight from my heart. It’s based on real emotions, memories, and lessons learned over the years.
3. What was the most challenging aspect of writing this book? How did you overcome it?
The hardest part was reliving the emotions—heartbreak, pain, and moments of deep regret. Putting those feelings into words wasn’t easy. I reminded myself why I was writing this—to heal, to reflect, and to show that love, in any form, is never wasted.
4. Are there any particular authors or books that have influenced the book?
Yes, I Too Had a Love Story by Ravinder Singh had a deep impact on me. Its simplicity and raw emotions resonated with my own experiences. Another inspiration was the love story of M.S. Dhoni, as shown in his biopic. His journey of love, loss, and resilience reminded me that even in heartbreak, life moves forward, and love finds new meanings.
5. What role did editing play in the writing process? How did you decide when the manuscript was ready for publication?
Editing helped refine my story, making it more impactful and engaging. Notion Press played a key role in polishing the manuscript while keeping the emotions intact. When the story felt complete and every word resonated with my journey, I knew it was ready. With Notion Press handling the final edits, I was confident it was time to share it with the world.
6. Do you have any upcoming projects or ideas for future books that you’d like to share with your readers?
Yes! I’m working on a fun, lighthearted story titled ‘Chai, Sutta, and Dosti.’ It’s about three childhood friends from Himachal Pradesh, India who stick together through thick and thin, navigating life, love, and the chaos that comes with growing up. It’s a mix of humor, friendship, and nostalgia. I also have more stories in mind—each inspired by real emotions and experiences. Stay tuned!
7. In the age of digital publishing and social media, how do you engage with your readers and promote your work?
I believe my readers are my soul. To connect with them, I actively engage on social media, especially Instagram. Short reels, engaging posts, and live sessions help me reach a wider audience. Since no media or traditional publisher easily supports a debut novelist, I rely on word of mouth to spread my story. I also collaborate with book communities, digital platforms, and book influencers who help ensure that my story reaches my readers.
8. How do you balance your writing career with other aspects of your life, such as work and family?
Balancing writing with work and family isn’t easy, but passion keeps me going. I write late at night when the world is quiet. My work keeps me grounded, and my family—especially my son and my maa—gives me the strength to keep chasing my dreams. Writing isn’t just a task for me; it’s an escape, a way to pour my heart out while managing everything else in life.
9. What’s the pen ultimate takeaway for readers reading your book?
I want my readers to feel that they are not alone in their heartbreaks. Love doesn’t always have a happy ending, but it always teaches us something. Even when people leave, love never truly disappears—it stays in memories, in lessons, and in the ones who truly care, like family. No matter how many times life breaks you, you can always find the strength to heal and love again. Last but not the least, never give up on love and never stop believing in the same.
10. What’s the one advice you’d like to share with aspiring writers of the genre?
I am a debut novelist, still waiting for people to accept me and share their precious feedback—whether they love my book or hate it. But one thing I truly believe is this: write from your heart. Even if your audience doesn’t connect with it the way you hoped, that’s okay. At the end of the day, your writing should be an honest reflection of what your heart speaks. Expectations may differ, but staying true to your story is what truly matters.
Mr. Kulbhushan Chaudhary is an Associate Director in PMO at a multinational company in Noida. He comes from a humble background in Delhi and has faced significant personal challenges, including a divorce, which he has transformed into creative expression through writing. A dedicated Hindi poet, he shares his work online. Love, It Was Never Meant for Me, is his debut novel. The book delves into themes of heartbreak, healing, and self-discovery. Alongside his artistic endeavors, he plays a crucial role in strategic initiatives within his IT career, embodying resilience and inspiring others through his journey.
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